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Discover & matching.

The grid, the match percentage on every tile, and how to find exactly the Dudes you're looking for — plus why the score looks both ways.

In short

  • Discover is the grid: Dudes around you, best matches first, with age, distance, online status, and a match % on each tile.
  • The match score looks both ways — how he fits what you're into AND how you fit what he's into — plus a closeness bonus.
  • It's computed from your "I Am" / "I Am Into" tags. No tags, no score — fill your profile.
  • Search (in the Menu) filters by anything; your DudesList keeps favourites — Hotties 🔥 and Buddies 🤝, private to you.

The Discover grid

The Discover tab shows every approved, verified Dude around you. Each tile carries the essentials: photo, username, a green dot when he's online (active in the last five minutes), age, distance, and the match percentage. Switch between the photo grid and a denser list view, whichever way you like to browse.

Members can browse up to 288 profiles per session; Supporters browse without limit.

87%
Marcoverified
32 · 2 km
64%
Benverified
41 · 5 km
Discover tiles: online dot, verified badge, age, distance — and the match %.

How the match % works — it looks both ways

The score isn't "how similar are you" — it's mutual fit, computed from the "I Am" and "I Am Into" tags on both profiles:

The catch, and your lever: the score can only work with the tags it's given. No "I Am" / "I Am Into" tags means a 0% match with everyone, and the bottom of every match-sorted list — not because nobody fits you, but because the app has nothing to go on. Two minutes in Menu → Sexual identity setting your tags is the single biggest upgrade you can give your Discover results.

Search — when you know what you're looking for

Discover is for browsing; Search (Menu → Search) is for hunting. Filter by the basics (age, distance, height, online, verified, with photos), by hobbies, languages, "I Am" / "I Am Into" tags, kinks, and health & protection choices. Results come back sorted by match.

Two things worth knowing: every filter works on what Dudes chose to share — hidden sections can't be searched, in either direction. And categories you've switched off in your own Profile Viewing Preferences don't appear as filters at all.

Your DudesList — Hotties & Buddies

Found someone worth keeping? On his profile, tap DudesList and file him as a 🔥 Hottie or a 🤝 Buddy. The list is yours alone:

Who's real in the grid

Everyone. Only profiles with a human-reviewed photo and a verified account appear in Discover at all — the empty-profile bot armies that clog other apps never make it in. That's the verification promise doing its job where it counts.

Last revised: 2026‑07‑02

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