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The grid, the match percentage on every tile, and how to find exactly the Dudes you're looking for — plus why the score looks both ways.
The Discover tab shows every approved, verified Dude around you. Each tile carries the essentials: photo, username, a green dot when he's online (active in the last five minutes), age, distance, and the match percentage. Switch between the photo grid and a denser list view, whichever way you like to browse.
Members can browse up to 288 profiles per session; Supporters browse without limit.
The score isn't "how similar are you" — it's mutual fit, computed from the "I Am" and "I Am Into" tags on both profiles:
The catch, and your lever: the score can only work with the tags it's given. No "I Am" / "I Am Into" tags means a 0% match with everyone, and the bottom of every match-sorted list — not because nobody fits you, but because the app has nothing to go on. Two minutes in Menu → Sexual identity setting your tags is the single biggest upgrade you can give your Discover results.
Discover is for browsing; Search (Menu → Search) is for hunting. Filter by the basics (age, distance, height, online, verified, with photos), by hobbies, languages, "I Am" / "I Am Into" tags, kinks, and health & protection choices. Results come back sorted by match.
Two things worth knowing: every filter works on what Dudes chose to share — hidden sections can't be searched, in either direction. And categories you've switched off in your own Profile Viewing Preferences don't appear as filters at all.
Found someone worth keeping? On his profile, tap DudesList and file him as a 🔥 Hottie or a 🤝 Buddy. The list is yours alone:
Everyone. Only profiles with a human-reviewed photo and a verified account appear in Discover at all — the empty-profile bot armies that clog other apps never make it in. That's the verification promise doing its job where it counts.
Last revised: 2026‑07‑02